I am out of Iran for about two weeks. Now, I am in Canada and studying in one of the best universities. All that I encountred to, was painful in addition to interesting.
Just the point is that I always think that if we immigrate, the process is more difficult to me rather than my spouse.
But my short experience demonestrates that I made a mistake! I am whom that carry the burden of our new situation not my spouse. It seems immigration is not as tangible as he thought. But I had no difficulty, from the first day I felt there in my hometown!