I met a lesbian in the age of around 60 who is doing her PhD in Economics. When we were discussing about homosexuality, she disagreed that it is an innate and a natural tendency. She defined herself as a "socialized lesbian"! She is a lesbian just because she always works and communicates with women!
She said in the period of her life when she needed a partner, if she encountered a reliable wonderful man, she might be partner with him! "But there was no man to attract me but many women in my work place and social activities." She said. So, she became a lesbian in a surprisingly simple way!
P.S. In gender theories, it is described that homosexuality is an innate and a natural tendency in people! She was a counter example of this accepted theory and confirmed that whole the process has been totally social.
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